Apparently, you reached here because you have been searching the internet for it. So, I assume you are willing to solve your relationship issues. Please stop trusting the Internet to judge about this sensitive topic. Through the web, you will only get MOO-opinion (cow's opinion, which doesn't make any sense ). No one is perfect.
Do you seriously think there is an expert out there to judge your relationship with you without even knowing you or your problem? I understand you might be having lots of questions and doubts. But if you will be calm for 5 minutes, I will tell why you or a good counselor are the best decision maker for your relationship issues.
Can anybody solve the math problem without knowing about the Problem (Question) well?
You are the one who knows about your relationship the most. You possess all the data which is necessary to solve your issues. So, there are two good options for you:
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| Let The Love Win |
1. Resolving the issue yourself by being calm and relaxed
How did you get into a Relationship? Of course, you people fell in Love. See my friend. If two people are equally angry and frustrated, then things are not going to be any good. You be the smarter one and for once be calm and tell your partner"Dear! we once loved eachother, now we hate eachother's guts, don't you think there are some misunderstandings? no one is perfect, can we please just for once talk calmly about things which bother us so much?"
No matter how your partner will react, just be calm and ignore everything they say in anger. Eventually seeing you calm and relaxed they will cool down. He/She was the love of your life, forget your ego for once, let them burst out. Eventually seeing you cool and calm they will cool down.
After your partner settle down to talk. Have a mature discussion; you can follow the method mentioned in this post (How To Solve Relationship Fights) to discuss with your partner. If it doesn't work out for you, Go for this 2nd option.
